Imagine if you will, a girl, or woman, who truly knows herself. She loves fiercely, trusts her gut,  and is immensely curious and knowledgeable. She is comfortable with her body, her hair, her skin. Everything about her is just right. She speaks her mind intelligently. She’s up on all the latest trends. She is so full of confidence that she walks down the street like Sandra Bullock in Miss Congeniality while her hair blows in an invisible wind, like Beyoncé. She’s lit! Now you might be thinking, yeah okay, but that’s not me! I want to be all those things, I even try to be, but I’m not. Not comfortable…